The Power in a Relationship Lies with the One Who Cares Less......
I read this status update on facebook.... it was my best friends.... and it got me thinking....Do people actually realise the power they have over others.... Do they realise they have the power to change a persons life...to maneuver a persons life in any direction....
Do they realise all this and purposely be insensitive to hurt the other.... to weaken the other.... what kind of egoistic satisfaction can a person extort out f hurting a person who blindly cares for them..... what is this power game..... I mean are they blind to see that they only get this power because someone genuinely loves them..... if this someone was to stop caring where would they get this power from.... and if this someone cares so much for them is it fair to act this callous way.... and hurt them
Does it actually make sense to Care less for a person to be the significant powerful one when someone unconditionally loves you and trusts you...
When you Love and Trust someone more than yourself it gives them a sense of power. As it has been proven Power corrupts even the best of human beings, so it is natural that once they have that kind of power over someone they tend to use in the wrong way, ultimately because of this they lose the person and hence power too but usually it is too late by then !!
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